Ms. Emily Pecot — they took the wrong person out of the room.

Dear Ms. Pecot —

You went to a public meeting last Thursday night because the Jersey City Board of Education was making decisions about your son's education and you wanted them to hear you. *You shouted, eventually. You did not leave when they asked.* Two officers escorted you out in handcuffs. *The summons followed. You were released inside an hour.*

The mayor publicly criticized the arrest the next morning. *He said what is obvious to anyone who reads the basic facts.* You do not handcuff the mother of a special-needs child for being too persistent at a meeting whose entire purpose is to listen to parents like you.

We are not writing this letter to you, Ms. Pecot. We are writing it past you, to the seven people sitting at the dais you addressed.

Their job — *the literal, charter-defined job of a school board* — is to deliberate on behalf of the students in their care. Particularly the students whose needs the system finds inconvenient. A child with disabilities is *exactly the student a school board exists to protect.* The parent of that child showing up to ask for a better outcome is *exactly the input a school board exists to process.*

The board did not process the input. The board processed the parent.

There is a name for an institution that responds to advocacy by criminalizing the advocate. *There are several names.* **None of them are *school board.***

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Here is the cold thing. *This is not the only special-education arrest in the news this week.*

In Texas, three elementary school workers were arrested at Nye Elementary in Laredo for abusing children in a special-education classroom. *Those arrests were the system working as designed.* Bad actors removed from the rooms they should not have been in.

In Jersey City, the arrest was *the system failing as designed.* The wrong person was removed from the room.

In one city this week, handcuffs fell on adults who hurt special-needs children. *In another, handcuffs fell on a mother of a special-needs child who asked the board not to.*

Two cities. Two arrests. *The mirror tells you which institution is broken.*

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The mayor's public criticism of the arrest matters. Elected officials almost never publicly disagree with the police response inside their own city. *They almost never have to.* The fact that he did means somebody at City Hall read the basic facts and decided silence would be worse for the city than honesty.

That is worth naming.

It also tells the board something it should already know. *The city itself is not standing with you on this one.*

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Ms. Pecot — we are leaving you alone in this letter on purpose. *You did not ask for the press. You asked for a board meeting to do its job.* The board failed. The press is showing up because of the failure.

We will say this much. You are the mother of a child with disabilities, fighting the system that owes him an education that works. *Your fight is the oldest American civic fight there is.* Asking that a public body listen to a parent is not a crime, no matter what the summons says.

The chair you sat in last Thursday is empty in the picture above. The chairs above it are not.

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The empty chair is yours, Ms. Pecot. *It will be yours every week the board meets — whether you are sitting in it or have been removed from it.*

The board's job is to look at it.

*We will keep ours on it too.*